The WOEMAN and the WOWMAN (the two types of women)

            Hi there, it’s me your friend indeed when you need to read. The world is made of a variety of ladies but crushed into two major types based on what they add or subtract from your life; we have two key types of women. They are the woeman and the wowman . Women are one of God’s most amazing creatures, they possess such great influence as to make a man or mar him and interestingly it’s their choice to do either, not yours (totally unfair). But when it comes down to picking the one with whom you’d spend your expensive time and hard earned money on, you got the choice yeaaaah.

          A time comes in life when we make this important choice of a spouse to spend the rest days of our earthly existence and this choice primarily determines how you live out these not very many days. It also determines how you exit this humane realm, either through a heart attack or in a good night sleep. This choice is not one to be played with, you are either blessed or cursed, and you would either bloom, boom all your days, zooming through life in peace and tranquility or gloom.
        So primarily, this choice determines the Woe or the Wow in your life. There are so many ladies out there, so many relationship pairs, friendships too many who care, a lot willing to share, a world of fun for those whose dare, but before you leap let’s get this straight. How do you identify a lady who’s going to wow your life? How do we get it straight and save ourselves and families the pressure of becoming prayer warlords? Here are some major tips that’ll help finding the right spouse…. Let’s do this 

  1. Does she have values? A lady without values has got very little self-worth and values herself least. If she isn’t got values then there are very little chances of her adding value to your life. What’s he talking about you’d ask? If you don’t have a clue it’s okay to be in your shoes, let’s break the ice

. Values simply say the principles that govern her life, the truths she holds dear, what comes first for her. Only a person of worth can recognize the worth in others (Thomas Carlyle).

  It’s not just okay to be hot she’s got to have some self-worth or soon in your thoughts you’d have doubts. Her beliefs are important, what she calls right or wrong. Is she easily carried away by the music or the vibe in the air? Hmmmm watch it. This has nothing to do with pride or a life filled with lies, so don’t miss it. Every bride’s got to have some personality, one with wings on which she can glide.

     2.  Can she cook? Oh yes she must know how to cook, does she makes 2minutes noodles looking up the recipe from a book? If it’s good then it was a fluke

. What’s she going to teach your baby girls? She’s got to have been disciplined enough to learn some cooking or your home becomes the prey for maids and a food delivery outlet.

Rule no 2; the secret passage to man’s heart is through the stomach.   

 3. Dude does she give a damn about her looks? what’s her perspective on looking good always? Home and abroad? I hope it’s not just for you, because once she’s got you; good looks are through. 

Stop don’t let her give you excuses, no one needs a Phd to look good. I just want to say that’s my boo and the guys say she’s cool. Looking good anytime and every time ought to be a habit.

4. Godlike fear? Now this is dependent on who you are or what and who you worship; for those of you who are not Christians. The fear of God keeps her in line and on time, and God in the home makes everything alright.

 Whether Muslim or Christian it is necessary that she’s answerable to someone.

Everyone who intends to go up in life must be connected to a higher power. She has got to believe in something.

   

     5. She’s definitely got to be a friend, one that’ll be there to the end, one that’ll never bend, updated with trends, not afraid to spend. Your thoughts, principles and values blend, your heart she’d always mend, a company you’d never lend, gifts on special days she’d always send.

If she’s all of the above then I bet there’s going to be a lot of Wow in your life and I bet you already said Wow. Is your answer no? Did you say no? Friend it’s 6 in the morning, wake-up, get up and get to work on your relationship. She’s got to make up or I guess you’d have to break up.