The WOEMAN and the WOWMAN (the two types of women)

            Hi there, it’s me your friend indeed when you need to read. The world is made of a variety of ladies but crushed into two major types based on what they add or subtract from your life; we have two key types of women. They are the woeman and the wowman . Women are one of God’s most amazing creatures, they possess such great influence as to make a man or mar him and interestingly it’s their choice to do either, not yours (totally unfair). But when it comes down to picking the one with whom you’d spend your expensive time and hard earned money on, you got the choice yeaaaah.

          A time comes in life when we make this important choice of a spouse to spend the rest days of our earthly existence and this choice primarily determines how you live out these not very many days. It also determines how you exit this humane realm, either through a heart attack or in a good night sleep. This choice is not one to be played with, you are either blessed or cursed, and you would either bloom, boom all your days, zooming through life in peace and tranquility or gloom.
        So primarily, this choice determines the Woe or the Wow in your life. There are so many ladies out there, so many relationship pairs, friendships too many who care, a lot willing to share, a world of fun for those whose dare, but before you leap let’s get this straight. How do you identify a lady who’s going to wow your life? How do we get it straight and save ourselves and families the pressure of becoming prayer warlords? Here are some major tips that’ll help finding the right spouse…. Let’s do this 

  1. Does she have values? A lady without values has got very little self-worth and values herself least. If she isn’t got values then there are very little chances of her adding value to your life. What’s he talking about you’d ask? If you don’t have a clue it’s okay to be in your shoes, let’s break the ice

. Values simply say the principles that govern her life, the truths she holds dear, what comes first for her. Only a person of worth can recognize the worth in others (Thomas Carlyle).

  It’s not just okay to be hot she’s got to have some self-worth or soon in your thoughts you’d have doubts. Her beliefs are important, what she calls right or wrong. Is she easily carried away by the music or the vibe in the air? Hmmmm watch it. This has nothing to do with pride or a life filled with lies, so don’t miss it. Every bride’s got to have some personality, one with wings on which she can glide.

     2.  Can she cook? Oh yes she must know how to cook, does she makes 2minutes noodles looking up the recipe from a book? If it’s good then it was a fluke

. What’s she going to teach your baby girls? She’s got to have been disciplined enough to learn some cooking or your home becomes the prey for maids and a food delivery outlet.

Rule no 2; the secret passage to man’s heart is through the stomach.   

 3. Dude does she give a damn about her looks? what’s her perspective on looking good always? Home and abroad? I hope it’s not just for you, because once she’s got you; good looks are through. 

Stop don’t let her give you excuses, no one needs a Phd to look good. I just want to say that’s my boo and the guys say she’s cool. Looking good anytime and every time ought to be a habit.

4. Godlike fear? Now this is dependent on who you are or what and who you worship; for those of you who are not Christians. The fear of God keeps her in line and on time, and God in the home makes everything alright.

 Whether Muslim or Christian it is necessary that she’s answerable to someone.

Everyone who intends to go up in life must be connected to a higher power. She has got to believe in something.

   

     5. She’s definitely got to be a friend, one that’ll be there to the end, one that’ll never bend, updated with trends, not afraid to spend. Your thoughts, principles and values blend, your heart she’d always mend, a company you’d never lend, gifts on special days she’d always send.

If she’s all of the above then I bet there’s going to be a lot of Wow in your life and I bet you already said Wow. Is your answer no? Did you say no? Friend it’s 6 in the morning, wake-up, get up and get to work on your relationship. She’s got to make up or I guess you’d have to break up.

I KNOW SOMEONE

You wake up every morning and the rush begins; everyone trying to out-do themselves, pushing to do better than they did the day before, running to jobs and bosses that you aren't really found of, and it is assumed that you have no choice, rushing to classes,   conferences and program-mes that most times bore the hell out of you. Everyone engrossed in the euphoria of the day,trying to make meaning of their lives.

Ever paused for a minute to ponder, if you actually knew someone who had lived today before you; wouldn't you go see Him first for counsel and instruction on what to do and what not to do, what to say and what not to say,what to wear and what not to wear? What an amazing day it would be to actually know what's going to happen before it actually did and have the right answers before the questions even arose

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What if you knew someone who could actually re-order the day in your favor,turn things around to fit your rhythm, cause things to fall in line with your dreams, aspirations, plans for the future? Wouldn't you be hell bent on seeing Him before you jumped into your day ignorantly?

Well i know a man like that and i guess a lot of you do too, but just seem to forget every now and then. He's name is Jesus, the Christ>the Son of God. So if you haven't talked with Him today, I'd advice you stepped into a quiet corner, maybe the rest room, a space with a bit of serenity and less disturbance and have a quick chat with Him.

He alone knows you better than you do, He knows your purpose, He made you.
What a feeling it is to know someone who actually knows what's going to happen everyday until the very end.

The thought brings unique glee, an inner peace and joy unusual and incommunicable.
 I mean, He made the universe in all its splendor, the galaxies, and all that there is; tell me who else would know the use of a thing better than the one who made it?

Your Loss, My Win

I met a man who was competing in a sport tournament for the sixth time and had never won. Amazed! I asked the man, why do you keep competing, when you never win? That’s not fair on you, he looked at me, smiled and with a sigh he let out these words- the world would break your heart ten ways over and that’s guaranteed. And I can’t explain that or the craziness of how it feels to endure such pain. But all the world is trying to do “is tell you that you can’t” maybe because you are not qualified or don’t deserve it, and no matter how hard you work for it, fight for it, it’ll always elude you. So your best option is give up and quit fighting. But listen, as he looked me straight in the eye, when you get beat down, you don’t count yourself out, when you get knocked down, you don’t act like you are knocked out, when you take a hit, it’s just a black eye, not a black out. And if you quit now, you would be known as a quitter, a looser, with a string of losses attached to his story, it would have been better if you never tried. But that’s only if you quit, he swerved into a resolute gaze and said , I’d rather die fighting than live a quitter, I’d rather die trying than live mourning my defeat. I’ll give everything I got into my next try and more just for one chance to look life and that challenge in the eye and say “your loss, my win”.

Most times life hits you so hard, you almost believe you cant take anymore, but the reality is that with every blow you grew stronger, with every loss you grew wiser, you grew smarter and with every beating you grew more resistant and resolute.

At first that challenge, that opponent was a dread, a huge scare and new, but now its just a regular. You are days, hours, minutes, seconds from taking that brick wall down. Back then you were a walk over, but now you’ve grown tougher. You can see the perspiration all over your opponent, (it) he feels your blows now, and tenses at your hit. See how the wheels have turned.

  He's

trying to stop you, fighting so hard; scared of what a champion you'd be!, "bring it on". Heroes aren’t measured by the size of their strength, but by the strength of their hearts, champions aren’t made in the ring, they are just discovered there, neither are warriors molded by words, they are forged in battle fields. So hit me with your best shot, give it all you got, because you might not get another chance. Because after now you become a walk over and I’ll finally get the chance to look you straight in the eye and say …… your loss, my win.. Laugh.